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I Never Met a Werewolf I Didn’t Like
How do you know so much about me?
Am I the only one who feels you understand me A LOT better then anyone else?
I don’t understand
what are you trying to say to me?
that we have a deep connection?
I know that, I’ve known that for a long time
that we’ve known each other before?
it’s possible
do read my blog is that why you know so much about me?
or have you always known so much about me?
what do you want me to believe?
You could just be messing with my head
but I feel like that isn’t true
Are you trying to say that maybe I was made for you?
is that possible?
It does freak me out sometimes
in a good way
that we happened to click the way we do
does that scare you?
I feel like whenever we talk like we did last night
it just brings us closer
do you feel that too?
Am I crazy to think that we just happen to be connected in some way?
I don’t think I should speak of this anymore
It’s just a lot
to take in and to talk about
I mean if your who I’m suppose to be with
I don’t want to be wrong about this
I can’t be wrong about this
As We Will So It Shall Be Done
So..
I’m finally over the not so good things that have happened to me
so of course I decided to write a story, a conversation really between someone who cares about me (no particular person) and an ex boyfriend who I am over and can honestly finally say I do not love him and I do not care for him anymore.. so here is ze story.
“You’re a real jackass for hurting Zoe, you know that?” he told her ex. “You practically broke this girl, this strong beautiful glorious girl, you said words to her that broke her heart over and over again and you wouldn’t stop, you beat her to the ground and you didn’t stop, how could you do that to someone like her? to her?”
“Look you don’t even know what happened dude, I could have been the one that was hurt more then she was”
“I highly doubt that. It took her a year and four months to get over you, for your name to finally leave her brain, you damaged her heart more then anyone else ever has and that’s saying a lot considering how many people have been naive enough to hurt her”
“How do you know all of this? why do you care so much about her? She’s just a crazy freak of a bitch who push’s people away all the time because she likes to feel useless and alone”
“I know because she told me and why I care about her is none of your business because your are just too much of a fucking idiot and your too weak to handle her. She is nothing of what you say, nothing, she is so much better then that”
“I guess I’m missing out huh?”
“Hell yeah you are, I don’t feel sorry for you either for not being able to see who she is and how great she is.. because you didn’t give her a chance, its right that your just outside of her life because she’s got me now!”
“What makes you think she has you now? she could still be in love with me”
“She knows I care about her and she knows I’m staying. She’s not in love with you anymore, it’s quite obvious you are out of the picture and out of her head, she most likely doesn’t remember your face”
“Ouch.. well that’s defiantly a kick in my ass, did you come here to defend her? to make sure I don’t get in the way and make her fall in love with me again?”
“Yes, I want you to stay away from her, you hurt her enough she doesn’t need any memory’s of being hurt back in her mind and she doesn’t need you. I don’t want you coming anywhere near us, because I’m going to make her happier then you ever could and she does love me and I love her more then words can say”
“Have you purposed to her yet? you know when I was with her I was planning to ask her to marry me at sunset by the lake..”
“Not yet but I’m planning to, well that’s off my list”
“Where are you planning to ask her?”
“Well I was actually planning on taking her camping then have us go on a hike and then pretend like I think we are lost and purpose”
“Wow.. that’s right up her alley”
“I know, if it rains it will be even more perfect”
“Well I wish good luck to you both, she finally has got that piece of happiness she was looking for and your it so thank you for being the complete opposite of what I was to her.. and I want you to hold her close to your heart always, she needs love and affection all the time and when she cry’s that is when she needs you most”
“Alright, yeah, I got that. I guess this conversation turned out the complete opposite of how I assumed it would be..”
“Yeah.. well even though I don’t talk to her I do still love her but she’s yours now and to me she is that girl that got away and I’m never going to get her back and I respect her so I don’t want to destroy her happiness in any way”
“Thank you”
“Don’t tell her we had this talk okay? don’t tell her that I still care for her and that I respect her, let her think that I hate her, good luck with your engagement and take good care of her ,when she says she doesn’t feel beautiful tell her how beautiful she really is, take her everywhere she wants to go, buy her things you think she will love but most of all make more then enough time for her, you let her drift away even a little bit she will never forgive you. The closer you hold her the more she will believe the words that you speak to her got it?” the ex just about felt like he was going to cry now
“Yes, I’ve got it thank you”
“You gotta promise me that your gonna love her no matter what happens, you stay by her side and you love her!”
“Okay, okay I got it, you don’t need to worry about it dude, she perfectly safe and happy with me”
“Good, so I’m gonna go now..”
“Alright good luck with your stuff”
“Whatever”
“Bye”
“Goodbye! take care of her!”
Crazy is Perfect & Fucked Up is Perfect
I deleted almost every picture
all but one of him
the one of him using photobooth
making his face ten times bigger
I’ve deleted every text message
the album of our conversations and memory’s
gone
he doesn’t miss me
not yet
maybe someday
strangely enough
I don’t miss him much
just a tad or a bit
once and a while
his face will appear in my thoughts
and I’ll smile
remembering the good of it all
I’m glad I let him go
I’m not going to talk to him
or with him
he isn’t worth my time any longer
just like I said before
if he cares
he can prove it
I mean of course
I want him to care
but he doesn’t
so whats the use in trying to make him care?
I mean I can understand if he is concerned with me
after what happened
but he hasn’t helped do shit
men help and support
little boys wallow in whatever the hell
is kept deep inside them and take forever
to just crawl out of their shell
Jesus! I wasn’t even his girlfriend
I mean three months
we were “together” for three months
and didn’t even want a relationship
he must have just wanted sex in the end
and I was probably the tool to get it
I mean it’s pretty easy
to convince a lover of romance
that you are here to love her
and then you use her
I mean it happens a lot
people get screwed over
but I didn’t even know what the fuck
we were the entire time
so you can’t blame me for freaking out and worrying honestly
YOU CAN’T
because it was his fault
I didn’t want to be a “thing”
in the first place
so I should have just walked away
I should have walked away before he did
I should have explained myself and said
“I don’t want just a THING with anyone, I want a committed relationship, you get me and I get you, you give me your time and I give you mine, so if you don’t want that you can leave because I don’t want anyone in my life who doesn’t want to be here”
I should have said that
but I didn’t
I fucking waited till the bitter end
why did I do that? huh?
this is going to be the last post I ever right about him
(but there is an unless, unless.. he proves to me that he cares, which most likely wont happen)
how come some people treat others so badly?
yeah, sure, at the start, I probably should have trusted him a bit more and said nicer things
but he fucked up too
the attention factor and communication factor
and the fact that all he knows is how to be alone
ding! ding! ding!
we have a winner
wiener haha
that was probably a little uncalled for
but as I started to type winner
I went for wiener instead
I had this insane dream today
since I got home so early
so I slept in late
but someone texted me
“I need to see you”
and then they called me
and it was super late at night
so I sounded tried
and I didn’t really both to see who it was
but I answered it
and said
“WHAT?”
“I need to see you”
“why?”
“I miss you, I need to see you”
“Why now?”
and of course I was at my moms or my dads
just little me
but it was just so nuts
why do so many people have a problem with a positive attitude?
can you guys help me out with this?
because I honestly don’t understand why people have a problem with my
“anything is possible” attitude..
I mean obviously you all don’t
but some people do
and I don’t really understand it.
like people say they are positive but they do not have a positive attitude
I mean I fucking embrace both my happiness and sadness
but I let sadness fade
I mean what’s wrong with saying “I can afford that”
and then someday you do?
you get me?
I have been taught my whole life
that CAN’T, NO, DON’T
are all the language of negativity
by saying you can’t you are bringing yourself deeper into the whole of it happening
for example; “I can’t buy that”
you will never get to buy it because by saying that you are bring poverty into your life
another one, okay..
example; “No, I am ugly”
you will become ugly
haven’t you heard of budda?
he’s the one that says
“The mind is everything, what you think you become”
so if you think negative you are negative
if you think positive you are positive
“I don’t know” is an indecisive thing to say
being indecisive can be negative also
but it also has to occur just as action does
if you treat someone poorly
they have no choice but to treat you the same or walk away
therefore I should have just walked away
and NOT made love to the guy
but what is done is done
I can’t change it
and I no longer want to
if things are suppose to be
he will make things up to me
and we will be at peace
just to be at peace would be lovely
that’s all I want now
I could try again
maybe
but I’ll need to be convinced
still shocked that I was pregnant
without knowing
having a early miscarriage hurts
at least when all that stuff is falling out of you
plus you continue to have cramps and spotting
and you eat like crazy after its over
you are bloated and the inside of your vagina hurts
yeah, not cool, it was a bit strange for me
since my period was late
and then it happened
and its really emotional
I cried for two nights straight
because you see the shape of the baby in your broken egg
and it’s painful, since that was suppose to be your baby
I got so stressed with everything that was going on that my period was late and my baby died
it makes you feel like it was all your fault really
it was so hard to tell my best friend without bursting into tears
and I mean I was pretty much alone on this
I told the dad obviously
but he wouldn’t talk to me about it
and it happened at least five minutes after he threw my heart on the floor
I’m not sure if he could take that back if he would
I mean hello, you won’t be scared for the rest of your life for loosing a baby, I will be.
and I didn’t even get a small amount of sympathy
I mean it was his fucking child too
it cannot under any circumstances be denied that this has brought our spirits just a bit closer together
but it’s his choice to act on it
since I have given up a large amount
and only have a smudge
of hope
if my visions are correct
then he will talk to me
and could like me again
keyword is “could”
but I’m going to need a lot more then a single rose
to give him a chance
I wish him the best with his life
to get that “real job”
success in his music and poetry
I hope he runs into a girl who is perfect for him
truly I do
I wish him great happiness and joy
throughout his lifetime
may there be love and joy wherever he steps
whichever path is chosen
Good luck
So Far So Good
I feel extremely
hmm
whats the word?
relieved? refreshed? revived?
I’d say all of the above
I find it
interesting how
after sifting through
arguments and bickering
there is much to understand
and all the more it just brings the two closer
but it only brings the two closer if they both come to a conclusion
and admit to their mistakes
when people become
naive and immature in an argument
they do not admit to their mistakes
I should know
I saw my parent’s do that
over and over again
and they still disagree and blame each other like small children
I find it ridiculous and it only makes it worse for my sister and I
I think I’ve about had it with arguments
it takes a lot of energy out of the person
and lucky for me
I have two special people who detest them
I like them once and a while but not all the time
I mean its fine to have a few
when its necessary
but still
I think I learned a lot last night
and for once in my life I am putting my guard down
I think things are better now
and the two have become closer
to be honest I always think that whomever I have a crush on is
“the one”
its a bad habit
but living in a “broken” family
I guess I felt I had no choice
so I kind of grew into it
thinking everyone around me is beautiful just the way they are
and accepting them
and loving them
all the while calling them perfect
it’s just how I was raised
to appreciate and admire everyone
so that’s how that happened
I’d like to say that
“some people”
don’t really look past
who a person is in this world
I’ve only ever met two people who actually insist on digging deeper
and know the real me
so I really do hope
they stay
so far so good