I’m a bit surprised at myself for how this nightmare affected me..
I guess I just…
I guess miss him, I miss him and I still love him at least.. some part of me still does.
I wish I didn’t, really, I wish it was less complicated then it truly is.
The thing is, I have nothing left. I gave him all of my hope and now I have no hope in us left.
but yet, after all this time, after all that we have been through I still want him
I know he thinks I’m crazy,obsessive and a big ass bitch… I’m sure he still loves his friends more then me and probably will never realize, he may be lost in his pride forever or he will realize but it’ll take some time.. that what he’s really missing is me..
The thing is I feel like I can’t do anything, honestly I can’t, its him, its his job to fix it if he wants because he is the one who left me, through a text and texting is completely impersonal.. we could have communicated better.. that I’ll admit and we could have tried harder but since I’m the one who tried the hardest and didn’t give up like he did I was the one who got kicked in the ass, I was the one who wouldn’t hear from him and who would have to hear him say some girl was prettier then I am..
at this moment, I miss him, at this moment I feel like I couldn’t forgive him.. not now, maybe in a week or a few months, at this moment he is the one that should be working to get me backing but right now neither of us are in the mood for that and that pisses me off
he said I wasn’t good enough for him, bullshit, he said I was normal, bullshit again, he said that he is bad at expressing his feelings, bullshit you could have tried harder, I tried didn’t I?
I came to you with open arms, I told you how much I loved you and how much I wanted to try again, and what did you do? push my thoughts and feelings aside like I mean’t nothing
Then you call me and say “I like.. I like.. I like you” and “I want you” and we talk till 4 AM then you convince me that we should try again, you get my hopes up and I agree with you, the next day you text me and bail again..
Do you understand how that makes me feel? can you even picture what its like to feel what I felt? can you?
I felt rejected, I felt sad and I felt disappointed. You got my hopes up and then you trashed them. You stuck a knife through them and laughed in my face. That is how I felt.
I have fallen in love with the movie Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind because.. because of the story, because of Clementine and Joel, because I feel I can relate to them both, because Joel misses Clem with all his heart, because Clem is impulsive and she erased joel from her mind and somehow they found each other and out of all the flaws they have in each other they still love each other, that is why..
because like them..
I would try it with Zach again
I’d go for another go-around
only I’d work harder, I’d try harder and I’d make sure that we both tried till the bitter end or maybe we wouldn’t end, maybe we’d go on..